Many of my friends characterize me as eccentric and wonder if my ideas will effect my child raising?

First I will protect this child with my life and would do nothing to hurt it. Some of my ideas include no toy guns or swords if it's a boy; no "glamour" dolls if its a girl, no sugar except I plan to institute an 8:30 bedtime until the child reaches the age of 16. Actually that latter idea I got from my fiance's mother. She used to put him to bed at 8:30 pm on school nights with low fat warm milk and sugar free cookies until he almost reached 16. I met him when we were both 13 in day camp and when we got a little older I offered to put him to bed but she realized that was a very bad idea lol lol. We were under VERY CLOSE parental supervision. Now I'm pregnant and we will marry in the Sept-Dec time frame because he's joining the Army against her objections (and my mother's too, both moms are concerned for his safety) and we will marry by an Army Chaplan and make the baby legal lol lol. I admit I'm a little eccentric but will this limit my ability to be a good mother?