Ex fu*ked me over, moving on, excited for something new but need advice..10 pts!?

my ex boyfriend and i dated for almost a year and i was mistakenly blinded by the things he said to me, he had me head over heels for him because he never really let me go. anyways sure enough he ****** me over one too many times and i am now compelely done with him, i want nothing to do with him. im not really concerned about getting someone new because i am intrested in a guy or two but i feel like its hard since were friends... how do you branch off from being "just friends" to being more then that because the guys im now intrested in seem like theyd never make the first move even though i have a feeling they are intrested. my ex did have a way about him that he had the first approach under controll ( which i liked) but now it looks like i need to do that? hellllllp me i need someone new in my life for a change and im sooo excited to start something new